“Promises, but no phone call.”

We all tend to question ourselves.  Did I linger too long? Is he even interested?  And when said guy from last week didn’t call this week, I was questioning.  And I don’t have answers to any of those questions.  But the good news is that I didn’t let it faze me.  I filled my week right up, maybe a little bit too full.  And when I ran into that guy on Saturday morning I didn’t bring it up until he said something about wanting to spend time with me.  And then I reminded him that I already told him I would love to and that he was supposed to call me.

What’s a girl to do in that situation?  I would genuinely like to spend time with him, but I’m also not sitting around waiting for the phone to ring.  I was a little bugged that he didn’t call, but I wasn’t going to whine about it. He promised to call again this week . . .


Alisa’s response

We’ve all  been there at some point. I suggest that when a woman (or man) is waiting for someone to call (or call back), you focus on meeting and flirting with others while repeating to yourself, “If they are the kind of person I’m looking for they will play their role and call. If not, they are not my only chance for happiness.”  It makes the situation so much more bearable. Good job on not focusing on it. It is so not worth the wasted energy.

Good luck,


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