I LOVE the concept of A-list B-list! This is great. I also appreciate you suggestion on making it clear you’re dating other people to lower expectation. This shouldn’t be rocket science, so why is it I’ve never thought about this before? I witnessed this tonight as a girl skillfully told a guy, “Ya, we can go out casually as friends.” Brilliantly placed.
Alright, and now with my new and revised deal breakers list, a story.
This week I got a call from someone I dated long, long ago. I was crazy about this person. One of the first people I ever loved. It was amazing what I was willing to overlook because of how deeply I felt. But looking back now, I’m much more aware of how he actually had several of my deal breakers. Once that hit me, suddenly, I felt a lot more closure. Interesting. Top-ten lists are good.
Thoughts, comments, insights? Let’s hear them.