Have you considered telling the guy you really like the truth.
For example, “I never know what to say when a friend of a guy I really like asks me out. I don’t want to be rude so I say ‘yes’ to the friend but then I worry that the guy I really like will never ask me out because I went out with his friend. The sad thing is that happened with you and I really would have liked to have had a chance to go out with you.” Then look at him, tilt your head, smile and say, “I just thought you would like to know because I think you are great.”
Then turn and walk away before he can respond. Trust that if he is interested he will stop you to talk about what you said and to get your number. Even if he doesn’t stop you then, he may still call if he is really interested.
If he is not interested he will at least be flattered. Just don’t linger after you make your statement. It’s really important that you walk away so he doesn’t feel pressure to lie, make excuses, ask for your number, or make promises he won’t keep.
The purpose of this technique is to make him feel great and to leave him with a clear understanding of your interest in him while also showing him your confidence, femininity, and ability to walk away with your head held high.
This technique makes him feel great and makes your look great.
I hope that helps.
Let me know if you try it out and how it works.
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