Author Archives: Sarah
Rejecting someone is so hard
Well, I did it. I rejected someone. This is not an easy thing to do as a girl. The guilt we feel is too much; we hate hurting people. The only thing I hate worse than rejecting someone is feeling … Continue reading
“Yes! You need to fake it ’til you make it.”
The number-one thing I have learned from reviewing Alisa’s great information as well as reading these blog posts is the importance of being confident. I’m confident in all aspects of my life EXCEPT for dating. I’m not sure why this … Continue reading
How do I escape the texting trap?
I have one question this week: How do I get out of the texting trap? It’s driving me crazy. Guys won’t call me—they’ll just text me. It seems like such a cop-out to me. Should I just chill out about … Continue reading
“I am not in a relationship, but I feel blessed and successful.”
Hi, friends! I have loved the community we’ve built on this website. Your support and experiences have enriched my life. This week I just had one quick thought I wanted to throw out to see if you’ve had the same … Continue reading
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Tagged appreciation, dating, flirting, patience
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“How do I flirt over the phone?”
Alisa, I just have a quick question this week and am wondering what your thoughts are. I have an old crush that has stayed in contact with me since moving to another state. We end up talking on the phone … Continue reading
“I’m doing all the talking. Is that all right? If not, what should I do?”
I didn’t meet my goal. I didn’t say, “I’ve got to go, but I’d really love you to call me sometime.” Sigh. Last week I was on such a high; this week I feel like I had no progression at … Continue reading
“I did the gentle wave!”
I first have to announce, I did the gentle wave this last weekend (click here to learn what this is and how to do it, or, if you are a guy, how you can recognize it)!! I have been SOOO … Continue reading
Posted in 2 - Flirting & Pursuing, Blogs - Step by step goals for you to try
Tagged dating, flirting
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“It feels great to . . .”
I don’t have anything earth-shattering this week. I flirted, but nothing came of it. Well, nothing immediately came of it. I did have one powerful insight, however. Alisa says that the goal of a woman’s flirting skills and a man’s … Continue reading
“Blind dates—Others are expecting a connection. What do I do?”
I seem to go on a lot of blind dates. I used to be annoyed by this, but then one day I had this feeling of gratitude that people wanted me to be just as happy as they are. And … Continue reading
“My top-ten list is increasing my interest in the opposite sex”
I’ve been putting off creating my top-ten list . . . I’m not sure exactly why . . . I just haven’t done it. Last week I decided it was time to write it down. I decided to write each … Continue reading
