Make the most of your Singles’ Ward (manage hanging out and dates)

For singles in the LDS Church, a Single’s Ward can be a great way to meet and date other singles. However, hanging out and dating in a Single’s Ward can also present many challenges.

In this 2-disk series, Alisa outlines all the techniques she teaches relative to managing hanging out situations, liking the same person your friend likes, getting more dates, and avoiding awkward situations (like holding hands and sitting together at church when you aren’t exclusive and you want to avoid gossip).

You can make the most out of your Single’s Ward experience and have more fun than you imagined by applying Alisa’s numerous techniques in this 2-disk series.

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There are 2 disks in this audio series.

Disk 1 Making the Most of Your Single’s Ward: Managing hanging out situations and transitioning them to dates

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Disk 2 Making the Most of Your Single’s Ward: Managing awkward situations that can occur when dating someone in a Single’s Ward

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In disk 1 you will learn:

Introduction (minute 0:0)
The benefits and down sides of hanging out (especially when you like someone) (minute 1:24)
When a request to hang out is really just a request to be the good-for-now girl or guy (and how to prevent and fix the situation) (minute 4:31)
When women say they want to get together but then don’t return his calls and how women and men should handle these situations (what the three goals of early dating should be) (minute 7:41)
How women can ensure that men really do know that she is interested (minute 10:43)
The difference between being on someone’s A and B List versus the good-for-now, too-nice, hanging-out, and just-friends lists (and how you can tell what list you’re on and what you are saying to the other person about what list they’re on) (minute 11:52)
Why men pursue hanging out instead of asking women out (minute 15:12)
Why women reject a date but might accept hanging out as a way to determine if she wants to date him later (minute 16:42)
Hanging out can sometimes increase a guys chances of making a good impression (minute 18:55)
The problems that come from hanging out (Are we friends? Do they like me or my friend? etc) (minute 19:55)
An awesome strategy for Ward social events to help singles meet more singles (and avoid closed groups and cliques) (minute 21:51)
The advantages and disadvantages of a large singles ward and techniques to make them more effective (minute 24:18)
Ways to create your own hanging out situations (minute 28:41)
Essential techniques to practice when hanging out (these are critical for those who are shy or have social anxiety) (minute 30:52)
Don’t hang out too frequently or the people you like may talk themselves out of dating you (minute 34:49)
When hanging out doesn’t lead to dates within two months people will lose interest (minute 38:24)
Many men feel women won’t give them time to get to know them (and why this often happens) (minute 40:24)
How women can get men to go for her number and a date (minute 46:40)
How men can ask for a woman’s number or a date (minute 53:05)
How women who aren’t ready to date and want to get to know him better first can handle the situation (minute 54:08)
How men can handle rejection with confidence and persistent while ensuring the possibility of a date later (minute 55:02)
When hanging out, women use these techniques to get guys to pursue a date with you (minute 58:49)
This is an education, goal setting, and accountability program and the importance of setting goals to push you past your discomfort(minute 1:03:29)
Essential techniques to do before you leave a singles ward or event (minute 1:04:32)
When hanging out, men use these techniques to get girls to move from hanging out to going on a date with you (minute 1:06:11)
How a woman can find out if getting together with a man is a date or hanging out (and how to encourage it to be a date) (minute 1:08:37)
How a woman can know if he’s not interested so she is free to flirt with his friends (minute 1:15:07)
If you aren’t ready to say, “I’d love you to call me sometime” or “Can I get your number” use this technique (minute 1:17:21)

In disk 2 you will learn:

It’s important that singles have a positive attitude and focus on having fun (minute 0:0)
What techniques to use when you feel like you and your friend like the same person (minute 0:59)
The importance of talking with your friends about how to avoid creating a clique (minute 12:20)
How to view the singles’ ward (what to focus on) (minute 14:24)
When a woman will fall in love with a friend and when she won’t (and what a guy can do about it) (minute 17:01)
How to play to your strengths when at a singles event or activity (minute 19:13)
How activities are essential to building connections (minute 20:32)
How to break in to small group to start a conversation with someone (minute 22:39)
The importance of using these two techniques as a tool for breaking into a group and looking confident (minute 25:06)
The importance of home teaching, visiting teaching, and callings (minute 28:40)
When a guy has a gaggle of girls around him–what a woman can do to get his attention (minute 29:18)
When a guy fears approaching the gaggle of girls hoping to get the attention of a specific woman (what both he and the woman he likes can do) (minute 31:28)
How much should a man or woman socialize with others in front of the person they like (minute 35:19)
The importance of working on your image and appearance (and key things that will make you stand out) (minute 37:47)
How negative comments about your experiences effect the way people perceive you (minute 45:30)
When interacting with singles who seem passive or content with being single (minute 46:06)
Why focusing on having fun, doing double dates, and have activity-based dates is essential (minute 52:18)
How much men should spend on a first date (and how spending too much can create too much pressure) (minute 53:37)
What techniques to use when you fear that others will know you are dating someone in the ward (or that you will be known as a player) (minute 54:45)
What techniques to use when you fear holding hands or sitting next to the person at church (plus, rules for managing kissing) (minute 58:39)
Handling social situations and mingle with others when the person you date is in the room (minute 1:06:27)
When to become exclusive and make it known in the singles ward (minute 1:07:21)
What to say when someone asks who you are dating (minute 1:08:17)
How to handle it when someone isn’t following through or cancels dates (minute 1:09:31)

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Disk 1 Making the Most of Your Single’s Ward: Managing hanging out situations and transitioning them to dates

On sale—this week ONLY—for $7.50 (regular price $14.95)

Disk 2 Making the Most of Your Single’s Ward: Managing awkward situations that can occur when dating someone in a Single’s Ward

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